While there are no hard numbers to prove a trend, some ""experts" claim more openness to same-sex relations in the media is paving the way for women to break ties with heterosexuality -- think Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson. Ever been in a relationship with a woman you thought might be gay? Been with the missus while she's with her mate and wondered, just a little? Wondered why they always kiss and cuddle and just get on so well? Your missus is gay when.. They start wearing their mate's ring and text all day, they get messages that say "I miss you".