A young lady has posted a "warning" to other young ladies to be aware of a "rouge" called Ben Shaw. She describes him as a "not very nice person". The link to her warning is here: Bowties are in fact cool That warning page also gives links to Ben Shaw's Flickr photostream, Facebook, etc. Apparantly this Ben shaw rouge has been shamlessly seeing more than one young lady at a time, he has beeen wooing them, photographing them, expressing his desires, and having carnal knowledge of them. Please would some ARRSEers with a bit of spare time, visit these pages and carefully study them. Although I write this warning in good faith, I feel it is important that people from here should form their own genuine opinion of this Ben Shaw character and his behaviour. Just in case you would also like to spread a warning about this rouge.