"A lady wants a BMW, a big fridge and staff...so to hell with the running, ballacks to the keeping in shape, just get a job with oodles of cash and you can take your selection... "Re: Fat Birds in the Gym Posted: Mon Jul 03, 2006 10:10 am by Cuddles "Lots of truth on here. Cuddles, bang on mate, they loves the cash!!"Re: Fat Birds in the Gym Posted: Mon Jul 03, 2006 10:29 am Biscuits The above got me thinking. I have every intention of joining on or other of the forces depends on which will give me the best career. However my OH and I have discussed this and I expect him to follow me. If I ever can be bothered to propose...I turned him down 6 times and made him promise not to ask me again, so its up to me. Yes...I am a career girl I don't want a forces man don't want the whole you joined to find a man bollocks. Husband hunting is not my style. I don't want a man who disapppears off around the world. Don't want the pain of him going on ops. I am selfish. I do however, seem to be the exception to the rule. Currently I am a student/swimming pool life guard/swimming teacher/aerobics instructor so I earn my own money which is if you include my NHS grant means I am living on Â£15,000 plus. (posh student) so I like money. If I manage to complete my studies and gain entry, am prepared to support him, feed, shelter, keep him clothed. However if he is able to find journalist job in the location thats all good too. I don't want to turn him into him in doors but.... So two questions 1/ Could you give up your career to be a House Husband? 2/ Is it your experience that woman are just after your wallet?