After meeting a woman on a night out, saucy old bird you know the type we arranged to go out for a bit to eat last friday. prior to this we have chats and conversation on the phone and by text and i made my position clear, that after getting out of a relationship recently i was enjoying single life and did not want a relationship and was just hapy to go out for the meal and enjoy the night. "oh yes thats fine, im glad your honest and im cool with that" came the reply. sorted i thought. meal was had, good night, good conversation, ludicrously low cut top showing off 3 grands worth of glorious breasts. "shall we go back to yours?" she asked i made my point again about my position and said i was happy with that as long as she was. "yes thats fine" she replys back to mine, one thing leads to another and a bit of slap and tickle ensues and we both seem pleased with the arrangement. well she must have been as was woken at 2am, 4am and 9am with more of the same. now, just 4 days later, and after texts here and there and chats online and a possible meet up this week arranged the tables have turned. she was prompting for a relationship and something more. "where do we stand" was the exact question. after reiterating my position and explaining i was honest from the start i get a flurry of abuse and am told "im the same as all the rest" only out for a s**g" i am indeed a complete"w**ker" apparently and now am recieving full bunny boiler action!! what the hell is going on? do any other arrser's have any points on this? and the lady arrser's amongst u, tell me what i did wrong and how do the female species work in these situations?