Lesbian couple, surrogate mother and sperm donor in three-year legal battle over right to be child's parents | Mail Online I am at a complete loss on thiss one. From what i gather, an infertile couple used a sperm donor and a surrogate to have a baby. Then for some reason the sperm donors wifes piles in... I am really not sure why she wasn't told to wind her neck in, and branding the parents of the baby (admittedly not genetic/biological) 'selfish' is a bit rich. Can anyone make any sense of the situation as reported?