I had a phone call from the TA last night inviting me over to visit a parade night, when I told my wife she went very quiet with me. I went and had a good time, I feel that I could fit in and have fun as well as using the skills I have. Go home with a application pack, The wife said "well you spend lots of time at work I will never see you". We have a 6 week old son. Am I being unfair? My wife and son mean the world to me.