It might have something to do with your propensity for the use of exclamation marks.
If you are always on permanent send on the drama radio he might be feeling that he has to act out in order to get noticed.
God forbid he doesn't feel the need to abuse the generally accepted constricts of punctuation!!!
OP, you haven't done anything wrong.
You'll work it out. Next week, next month, next year. But you'll work it out.
I lived in fear about being murdered by my father. And to be fair, I did come within inches of dying on the odd occasion.
'Tis but a scratch!
Hold them close. You're the boss!