i recently split up with my husband and although i have had a rough few months of it i feel i am ready to meet someone new.. i come from the northeast but currently live and work near Andover. i have a cracking sense of humour and up for a laugh. I am cute looking ( so i have been told many times) i am blonde hair, hazel eyes, no glasses.etc so why is it that every bloke i have met, he has a girlfriend/wife or is only after a shxx!!!! and to cheat and no i havent gone to bed with anyone or cheated with them either.. My ex is a soldier and i would like to meet another one, not that i am a squaddie chaser but civvies just dont have that sense of humour squaddies have or that charisma and charm.. dont squaddies want a decent lass or are they just after a one night stand!!!! come on lads you must know what you are looking for.. me and my mate went out on the lash at the weekend and i couldnt believe that the lasses that mostly got pulled were the mingers and the 10 - 2's.. obviously i am doing something wrong.. can you give me a hint or tip.. please.