where are all the good men gone??

#1
i recently split up with my husband and although i have had a rough few months of it i feel i am ready to meet someone new.. i come from the northeast but currently live and work near Andover. i have a cracking sense of humour and up for a laugh. I am cute looking ( so i have been told many times) i am blonde hair, hazel eyes, no glasses.etc so why is it that every bloke i have met, he has a girlfriend/wife or is only after a shxx!!!! and to cheat and no i havent gone to bed with anyone or cheated with them either.. My ex is a soldier and i would like to meet another one, not that i am a squaddie chaser but civvies just dont have that sense of humour squaddies have or that charisma and charm.. dont squaddies want a decent lass or are they just after a one night stand!!!! come on lads you must know what you are looking for.. me and my mate went out on the lash at the weekend and i couldnt believe that the lasses that mostly got pulled were the mingers and the 10 - 2's.. obviously i am doing something wrong.. can you give me a hint or tip.. please.
 
#6
Me and my husband split up because he cheated a few times and i had enough.. These women were not nice looking either before anyone starts, i think he just wanted more excitement and some bit on the side.. i think by me walking away from my marriage and wanting honesty and trust is not hard to want in a relationship dont you think, i mean no one wants to be with a cheater and an axx hole. I am 30 but thank god i can still get away with looking 26 - 27 :p A 10 - 2 is girls who are ugly as sin and if a squaddie hasnt pulled by about 2 and they want a shxx they chat up them cause they cant pull a nice or fit lass :lol:
 
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#8
We’re going to need to see pictures :D


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#9
After doing some research i found five reason's why men cheat on their wives
May be this will help with future relationships

1. LOSS OF EGO
A man?s primary need is to feel good about
himself. When he doesn?t he finds ways to
meet this primary goal .


2. MISPLACED ANGER
He may be angry at his wife but, rather
than deal with problem, he has an affair to
? make her pay?

3. BOREDOM
Affairs are rarely boring; they tend to be
exciting and full of life. Even the fear of
getting caught causes excitement.

4. ESCAPE FROM EMOTIONAL PAIN
The male sex drive provides a distraction
or ?vacation? from emotional pain.

5. NEED FOR NURTURE & INTIMACY
If these needs are being met, men have
no need to look elsewhere
 
#10
:p no i dont think i will be putting any flange shots on the net.. i mean come on it would be like putting a pic of a kebab on there ha ha.. yes i have 1 son and its i read the 5 reasons why men cheat but the real reason i recon was being married too young and then realising that maybe there are more to chose from.. i am far from being boring really the opposite :wink: but i think if a person wants to cheat he will no matter what the relationship is like.. good or bad..
 
#11
destiny_james1 said:
yes i have 1 son
Amateur Mistake number one. The advertising of baggage.

Re-register and try again.

Goku has the right idea though. Post a photo in the gallery (it dosen't need to be a gash shot, but should include a backdrop of your grotty one bed flat with 80's wallpaper and smoke stained curtains).
 
#12
pentwyn said:
After doing some research i found five reason's why men cheat on their wives
May be this will help with future relationships

1. LOSS OF EGO
A man?s primary need is to feel good about
himself. When he doesn?t he finds ways to
meet this primary goal .


2. MISPLACED ANGER
He may be angry at his wife but, rather
than deal with problem, he has an affair to
? make her pay?

3. BOREDOM
Affairs are rarely boring; they tend to be
exciting and full of life. Even the fear of
getting caught causes excitement.

4. ESCAPE FROM EMOTIONAL PAIN
The male sex drive provides a distraction
or ?vacation? from emotional pain.

5. NEED FOR NURTURE & INTIMACY
If these needs are being met, men have
no need to look elsewhere
What pish. I'm not going to tell you why men actually cheat because that would take the edge off it. And by-the-by apart from your point about emotional pain, you can just substitute women in the place of men and that fits the bill of what I am, and I'd guess every other man here thinks of women.
 
#13
destiny_james1 said:
i recently split up with my husband and although i have had a rough few months of it i feel i am ready to meet someone new.. i come from the northeast but currently live and work near Andover.
You forgot how to spell Tidworth, Bulford or Larkhill??

Post a picture and I'll say hello when I see you in Andover - as will everyone else. Or better still send a link to your faceparty account!!
 
#14
Your chances of meeting someone for a meaningful relationship, by going out on the lash, are negligible.
Get yourself down to one of the decent supermarkets (M&S or Waitrose) at about 7 - 7.30pm and look out for the blokes buying meals for one and wearing decent clothes.
The salad counter in particular is a mecca for successful urban singlies, you may have to settle for a civvy though, as single, caring, sensitive squaddies looking to settle down are a little thin on the ground. :wink:
 
#15
Errm. If you type this lass's username into Google, it brings up a hotmail address. Maybe a pic on there?
 
#17
:lol: oh my god i just looked on google and there is my hotmail addy.. no pic on there yet cause i havent sorted one out.. thanks for searching for me though. makes me feel so wanted ha ha.. the shopping thing sounds ok but knowing me i will be scouting around for someone buying meals for 1 and think he is single and probably end up chatting to some hairy axx bloke who is not into women which is my luck.. :wink: to be honest i aint in no hurry to find mr right just cant believe what alot of squaddies end up with.. i think sometimes the frase any holes a hole takes the micky ... 8O :p i think all the good ones have been taken , being a geordie lass i think my fun loving sense of humour will stop me getting all depressed until the right one comes along..
 
#18
destiny_james1 said:
where are all the good men gone??
destiny_james1 said:
i recently split up with my husband and although i have had a rough few months of it i feel i am ready to meet someone new.. i come from the northeast but currently live and work near Andover. i have a cracking sense of humour and up for a laugh. I am cute looking ( so i have been told many times) i am blonde hair, hazel eyes, no glasses.etc so why is it that every bloke i have met, he has a girlfriend/wife or is only after a shxx!!!! and to cheat and no i havent gone to bed with anyone or cheated with them either.. My ex is a soldier and i would like to meet another one, not that i am a squaddie chaser but civvies just dont have that sense of humour squaddies have or that charisma and charm.. dont squaddies want a decent lass or are they just after a one night stand!!!! come on lads you must know what you are looking for.. me and my mate went out on the lash at the weekend and i couldnt believe that the lasses that mostly got pulled were the mingers and the 10 - 2's.. obviously i am doing something wrong.. can you give me a hint or tip.. please.
destiny_james1 said:
:p no i dont think i will be putting any flange shots on the net.. i mean come on it would be like putting a pic of a kebab on there ha ha.. yes i have 1 son and its i read the 5 reasons why men cheat but the real reason i recon was being married too young and then realising that maybe there are more to chose from.. i am far from being boring really the opposite :wink: but i think if a person wants to cheat he will no matter what the relationship is like.. good or bad..
destiny_james1 said:
:lol: oh my god i just looked on google and there is my hotmail addy.. no pic on there yet cause i havent sorted one out.. thanks for searching for me though. makes me feel so wanted ha ha.. the shopping thing sounds ok but knowing me i will be scouting around for someone buying meals for 1 and think he is single and probably end up chatting to some hairy axx bloke who is not into women which is my luck.. :wink: to be honest i aint in no hurry to find mr right just cant believe what alot of squaddies end up with.. i think sometimes the frase any holes a hole takes the micky ... 8O :p i think all the good ones have been taken , being a geordie lass i think my fun loving sense of humour will stop me getting all depressed until the right one comes along..
Use your spare time to do some English Language Courses.
 
#19
for.. me and my mate went out on the lash at the weekend and i couldnt believe that the lasses that mostly got pulled were the mingers and the 10 - 2's.. obviously i am doing something wrong.. can you give me a hint or tip.. please.
I think this was written by a bloke...???!!!

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