Hi guys, I need some advice really. I'm not some attention seeking walt, I'm genuinely concerned about a friend. I kind of suspect a colleague of mine is abusing his kid, well it may not be him, it maybe his wife or someone else, but over the past year her behaviour has changed quite a bit, she's only 8, but she's recently become withdrawn and hates being left on her own in a room with just males. I've also noticed some bruises, which if I'm honest, don't look accidental. Question is: What do I do? I'm not sure if it is actually hapenning, or whether my imagination has taken over my instincts and I don't want him to have to be reprimanded or chucked out the army or for everyone to think he's an abuser if I've got it all wrong, so do I ask her about it next time I look after her? Do I contact the NSPCC or civpol, or go to the RMP? Does the RMP even deal with internal child abuse? I need your advice... and please no stupid answers! Thanks.