Ok so a bit of a random thread, hence why it's in the NAAFI ! Yesterday I asked my darling to marry me (My 2nd marriage this will be) and she agreed. So we got talking today about the wedding and I realised I've got a bit of a dilemma. See, whilst I did serve it was a crap job, for a crap period of time, I have a single medal, which is the crappest of the crap and low rank. My brother and most of my school friends (who will attend) are either forces or left the forces at modestly senior level (we're talking ex and currently serving Army Captains and Lieutenants, ex-RM Captain, ex and serving RN Lt Cdr + others of similiar or higher rank) and have a fair old bit of gongage. My brother will of course be my best man, and as this is a church wedding will probably want to show up in uniform or some such. I am worried. I don't want to look like a complete tosser and show up in my old uniform (of which I am not proud, enlisting at that age and that rank was a mistake and I accept that) nor do I want to upset my brother who I am incredibly proud of and prohibit him wearing his uniform + well earned (real) medals. However, if he wears it then all my buddies will want to and I'll probably be expected to. I'm torn between being proud as hell of my brother and rightly so, and not wanting to be upstaged at my own wedding by mad quantities of tin. Argh! Any ideas? In advance - no pictures of aforementioned gash shall be supplied so whilst I know you'll ask I won't respond to them individually just take it as a blanket 'do one'.