hi im at the final stages of recruitment and still havent got my first choice fully thought out. I know that i really want to join the infantry but i feel really selfish on my parents as they worry soooo much. i know that whatever i do they would worry and anyone's parents in the infantry will also worry but im afraid that if i join and i get deployed to afgan my mum would just turn into a nervous wreck. The problem is they have seen my job list and they keep saying ' choose a trade , so you can get a job when you come out' . The thing is i want to make a career not just get quals and leave and most importantly i want to be interested in my job. i know this may of been asked hundreds of times but has any one els been in my position ? what did they do did they lie about what ob they were going for ? or what ?