My sisters mate has a kid by a squaddie, he voluntarily agreed to pay her money for the kid and to try and keep things civil and easy she agreed to take his word on what he was told to pay by the CSA. Now she thinks he has basically been taking the piss and paying far less than he should. Any ideas how she can quietly find out how much he is paid??? And no shes not some money grabber, can't blame her for wanting what her kid is entitled to can you?!?