Not wanting to scare anyone off but just a note of caution, family oral histories are often badly incorrect. My Gt Grandfathers story was that he married the nurse who helped him back to health. Perusing his service records available online from Canada he was already married when enlisting in the 24th Bn CEF and spent most of the war in hospitals being treated for various ailments. His final medical papers show his discharge from the Canadian VD Clinic near Brookwood in 1919. Now I know all sorts of hospitals were used to deal with the flu epidemic but his final note says he has received sufficient treatment to be clear of syphilis.
No one ever spoke badly of him, my grandfather his youngest son died aged 24 bailing out in 45 from a Halifax bomber. Every letter I have read from his comrades to my Nan and ones from my Nan to my Mum all seem to have him as a bit of a saint.
I dont doubt this I just wonder if Grandad was a sainted which great uncles were proper cads?