Everyone has The Power, but not everyone is able to utilise it fully. If you are determined enough you'll eventually figure it out. Ask key persons here for guidance; the rest comes by trial and error.
I'm "Gunner Bashly" in-world, BTW... send me an IM and I'll find my way to the island if I'm not too busy. I have a bunch of nekkid lady dancers to organise for tonight, so today might be fairly hectic for me (I know, it's an awful job, but someone has to do it). Better yet, show up at the club and be a part of it. Shoot me an IM for an invite.