That you are an overly emotional individual.
Should he threaten to kill his kids, no.
Can he kill their cell phones yes, can he cut off funding, yes he can.
Snitching is not great quality, and turning in family members is a great way to burn bridges for life. Of course you also seem to disagree as your society has turned snitching into an art.
So you agree with the Mafia virtue of omertà then.
Family members do crimes, don’t tell anyone. Are you a pikey too?