I've written on several of the lazy assumptions, half-baked assertions and plain wrong statements of 'fact' conained herein before. But, glutton for punishment that I am, FWIW a few considerations:
RN Aviation Doctrine
It's easy to suppose that because the USN and IJN did things very differently to the RN that 'they were right' and that 'we were wrong'. But it's fundamentally not a zero sum game. The RN were absolutely pioneers in the field of naval aviation. From modified battlecruisers and merchant vessels like Furious and Argus the FAA, even when still part of the RAF, was right at the forefront of innovation.
The downside of this, of course, was that other navies around the world could, and very much did, learn from the inevitable mistakes and false turns the RN made. It meant that this country was paying to innovate but, in the constrained economic times of the 20s and 30s, could not afford to 'fail fast' and rapidly act on lessons learned.
There were, arguably, 5 maritime powers at the start of the Second World War. Two, the French and Italians, were not seriously in the aviation game. Two, the USN and IJN were typically half an 'innovation generation' behind the RN in 1939.
The Great Carrier Size Debate
Here again, one has to contextualise when and why carriers were designed and built. The Courageous Class were First War battlecruisers converted to carriers, Argus was a liner. What they did allow though was to learn about operating aircraft at sea, even on a sub-optimal platform.
Ark Royal, criticised and she often is, was absolutely revolutionary. Purpose built, 2 hanger decks, a larger air wing than the RN had ever deployed before; the Navy's first proper Fleet Carrier. She was also smaller than the Navy wanted, and more expensive. The first because she was built to Washington limits (ignored just a couple of years later by the US and Japan, only Britain was arguing to renew the 1922 treaty), the second because the shipyards had to learn how to weld a 22000 tonne in order to save weight.
The armoured deck carriers, vs the roughly contempraneous Yorktowns, were, of course, a product of the war they were planned to fight. In the mid-30s (I forget the exact year, but I've slept since I last read widely on this) the Joint Intelligence Committee published their paper on what all could see was the coming war. They, rightly, stated that Britain was likely to have to fight Germany and/or Italy and/or Japan; or any two but not all three; and not two alone with no allies.
If the UK was to fight Germany then the RN would adopt it's traditional role of blockading Germany and dominating the Atlantic. Pre-war planning was that if the Italians got involved, then Britain would be allied with France and the Italian fleet would be a French problem. The RN did not plan, and was not directed to, to fight in the Atlantic and Mediterranean. They did, though, expect that British shipyards would be at capacity turning out the late 30s building plans and would struggle to repair damaged, let alone build replacement, carriers. The UK did not have the industrial capacity to be able to afford risking losing it's carriers and that informed the decision to go with armoured carriers albeit with smaller air wings. Given that less than a year into the war the entire Western and Southern seaboards of continental Europe were in enemy hands that decision could be considered providential.
If there's an appetite, I'll weigh in (no pun intended) on naval aircraft, the FAA vs RAF competition and torpedo vs dive bombers in a bit.