SWOFTYS: "GILF/Cougar, whatever, they're looking better these days. The 600,000 older females in Britain who are either spinsters, widows or divorcees have never been happier", apparently. Squidoo: "This the greatest time to be single and over 50. Women are free to seek love or sex without the constraints that they had when they initially were married". All true I fear. Know any do you? The 50 Sexiest Women Over 50 - Zimbio They're spending their freedom years eagerly embarking on new adventures doing what thy've missed. Grownup kids, grand children, just the wrong side of fifty but looks forty at most. Outwardly Mumsy, Granny, and demure, a complete con merchant to her family and a right little raver when you know her. It's the best, in bed, the best, like a 52 year old I know, and you wouldn't think twice there, either. They'll often use and abuse, and if you can handle that, fine. You'll get the best of everything, if only for a short time. They kick you out and crack on , when Game 's Over. Possibly the ride of your life. Sadly, though SWOFTYs might be livelier and more horny than they were a few years back ., they might experiment more and they might shag your brains out before morphing back to Mum and Nan again..... SWOFTYS can be short lived players, they're far too mature and independent, too experienced , and too committed to their offspring and grand-kids to commit to anything less than a large wallet and all the trappings they think they deserve. Men, they've shat em, they've sucked em in and blown them back out again. Try it, you'll love it. May be best not to stay on too long, enjoy the ride but know when to get off and go back to MILFs .