Ok, serious question but in the NAAFI due to the subject matter. Most, if not all of us given the odd slap across a nice pair of bintbuttocks when they're properly presented and wiggled in the appropriate manner, but what's the score on going further ? My doris has always liked to be - well, submissive I suppose you'd call it. Combat indicators like keeping her hands behind her back while playing the beef oboe, and similarly when getting the gospel from behind. Now she's asked - straight out - to be spanked properly. What's the consensus, is some kind of specialised implement necessary or do you just go with the flow and grab whatever's lying around the gaff ? I'm a bit low on ropes & chains so is some sort of restraint the norm or is that too hardcore ? Now I'm always game for a laugh but want to keep within her - and not least my - bounds. In your own time, go on.