Ok, this isn't the naafi but its a call for advice. A very old friend of mine and I were out drinking last night, he has a new girlfriend. She is a smart and bright individual and clearly confident and outgoing. Whislt she popped to the ladies he explained his dilema: She is very submissive in the bedroom and likes to be punished, not just a mild slap but whipping and punching including verbal abuse, the worse it is the better. I was and still am shocked and confused and so is he, he is really not sure what to do as it sees so wrong to do this. Anyone have any understanding of this, I advised him to walk, but she is a very attractive woman and he is C**T struck. I know is a sub dom thing, but all advice welcome. I haven't a clue and to be honest I'm not sure why he told me. I wish he hadn't, but he's asked for help so I'm turning to you.