I havnt a clue where to make this topic, so opted for Joining Up. Im a bit worried about something. Im starting Phase 1 in June, which im thrilled about. My girlfriend wants to stay together while im away, which im even more thrilled about. However, shes a catholic, and we both live in Northern Ireland, and her area isnt exactly army tolerant. Obviously im not going to be advertising my career choices and hopefully we can continue seeing each other without any dramas. Im just curious though, does the Army have any policies about this kind of situation? And will I be told to choose between the Army and the other half if I mention it to the careers office or my ATC instructors? To be honest, shes ALOT more worried about it than I am! I wouldnt have even gave this a second thought if it wasnt for recent events in my shi1e hole province!