I need some help, basically everything was going fine right up to my final interview. barb test done medical forms in etc, then today my interview with that numarcy and literacy test etc, i passed that too but it wasnt hard. even if my spelling and grammar in this post dictates otherwise, but basically heres the problem, my fiance's ex left over £3K worth of rent arrers on this flat from 1999 - 2001 amazing that that was accumulated and they were not evicted but thats what happend. anyway, ive now been here with her with my duaghter and stepson, anyway we have proof that he was the one working fulltime at that point and should have been paying the rent. he obviously did not. now at my interview they tell me i cannot get living quaters if im not married to the mrs, fair enough i totally understand that. however im now told by the AFCO that i cannot join fullstop if i am married to her and the rent arears are not payed as it somehow becomes my debt.. so wth.. her ex makes debt and run's away and i try to start a career and cannot do it becuase his debt becomes mine.. does anyone have any idea how i can fight this if at all. if not im gonna have to pay a £3k debt that isnt mine, im alreaddy paying for his son (wich i dont mind doing but he doesnt pay anything at all) this is turing into a complete nightmare for me. sorry to moan about it but im really p155ed off about it.