I know this has been posted before but i cant find it in the search so here we go again!! Ok so its the right shape now ive removed the inner bit but still falls over my ear buy 1/4inch or so, other peoples are half inch above, so how did they shrink it that much?? even the pissing local cadets have perfect berets!! ive hot/cold/hot/cold on head ,shape, leave to dry but it still has hardly shrunk. ive done it maybe 3 times..