look I know you lot are just RLC and not Gods own Corps but if the RSM is "knobbing" that makes him male... so you're looking for a Female CO or just another "very friendly" male RLC Lt Col and WO1 combo!
You are correct and at the time at a year ago, I was new to the site, did not quite understand the rules (I was being a biff) and made a mistake - hence that thread being closed. For which I humbly apologised to the MODs at the time and was quite rightly put in my place. I will accept any other incoming about similar without a bite - I got it wrong and learnt from the mistake.
I maintain my entry on this occasion and I think I was right in posting what I said (IMHO).