folks, i've got a problem. after two years of me working away from home to cover up the the catastrophe that was our marriage, we finally decided to seperate and then divorce. however its gone tits up. we were living in Scotland, my wifes home (but with very little family), after 18 months of me working in wales we all - but with my wife as the big protagonist - decided that it would be best if she and our then 6 yo daughter moved to the south of england. she found a decent job, we got a nice home and a brilliant school that has identified a couple of issues that the scottish school completely missed, and is now making great progress on. in addition, its not far from my parents and they play a big part in my daughters life, as well as saving us a fortune in child care. after a year of this 'happy truce' we have decided that its time to stop pretending and to seperate and then divorce - but trying to stay amicable and have 'no change' for our daughter. this lasted one week. my wife has decided that next summer she's going to move back to Scotland with our daughter, she's already got a job lined up, and that - apparently, is that. now, i have number of issues with this, but the biggest one is my wifes seeming disregard for the fact that our daughters schooling is obviously going to suffer - as i said, she in an outstanding school that have done miracles - and the contact issue: i currently have her one weekend in two, and see her twice each week. if she moves to scotland i'll be lucky to be able to afford to see her one weekend in three, and no weektime contact. i'm incredibly unhappy about this decision - and i only found out after both my daughter and the school were told. obviously i'm going to talk to a solicitor about this, my wife isn't interested in talking about it, its done as far as she's concerned and she doesn't care about my views. can any arrsers with experience help with what they think i might be able to achieve - am i just the cashpoint with no rights, can i stop my wife moving hundreds of miles and changing our daughters school for the second time in 18 months with not so much as a 'by-your-leave' - can my wife just do what the fcuk she likes and to hell with how it affects my daughters life?