This is an interesting conundrum. People need to realise that every tank has 3 soldiers in it, an IFV or APC may be more etc etc.
Focussing on the equipment you are destroying rather than the individuals that are being killed is a common defence mechanism that’s been around for years for fighter/bomber pilots and those who kill at distance. The land domain demands a large degree of close quarter fighting and dying in filth and dirt and personally I’m surprised there is a mod view that it shouldn’t be shown. It’s not for titillation, it should be a warning - I don’t like it but I can choose to watch or not, and personally I don’t need to be told what I can look at.
Just my opinion clearly, but sanitisation is a way of making the filth of war acceptable.
I think the problem is something you added in your post, but that doesn’t apply to you or most posters here imho.
Yes, it’s nasty, yes most of us know it’s for real, and isn’t fun or sport…….
But the odd poster, and perhaps the type of poster who might often change their avatar name DOES view the vids for titillation.
Edited to add.
I‘ve only just scrolled forwards and seen the posts about dropping things, after I had posted.