Having signed off recently i was thinking of reasons why i had signed off in the first place, I didnt have to think long before senior personel within the armed forces put the icing and cherry on the cake. Having proved myself to my bosses that i could not be away from my house where my son and g/f live in rather unusual circumstances for safety reasons. They not only wanted me to leave home for 2 weeks putting my son at risk because my g/f is unwell and suffers from collapsing episodes but they ordered me to go on a journey that involved me being away from home at a distance of 3 hours which is not very practicle if anything should happen. "I am ordering you to do this job, If you refuse to do this then you will be charged and we will get the social services involved" were the exact words of a senior officer within my regiment. I personally find this completely unprofessional and damn right illegal what happened to the welfare service. Just for your info there were several people there that could have done this job but they insisted on sending me. I have 2 months left in the army surely something could have been worked out. If anyone can help me out here please feel free to email me.