Me and one of the female gunners from our battery have started seeing each other outside the TA and it has became serious. At the moment we are unsure if the it is in the best interest to tell our anyone in the barracks in case it is frowned upon. Both of us our still recruits and are unsure on how it all works. Would the TA have a problem with us being an item or would they be OK with it. Or should we keep it quiet and tell know one about it. Its a bit difficult at the moment as we have to arrive and leave in different cars when it would be much easier for us both to go in just the one vehicle. I know it might sound silly asking this but i have tried looking around the Internet to no avail. some advice would be much appreciated.