@thegimp
Not much to say to that...seeing inside another person's head has never struck me as a particularly straight forward exercise.
Some people are good at sublimating stuff, others less so. And chancers will always jump at the chance to make a few bob, garner sympathy, work the system whatever.
The Ex-Forces Mental Welfare Society (Combat Stress) was formed just after the Armistice in 1919.
They can only accept patients who already have a clinical diagnosis.
They have seen the wheel turn
many times on whether or not serving in dodgy places, seeing nasty things can monkey with your head.
This is their centenary year .
Part of the problem for a lot of ex-Forces people is the 'Rubber Duck syndrome' -
" only weaklings have mental health issues - that's not me, I'm a rubber duck - you can't crack me'
So dealing with people who have reached the end of their rope is tough. Especially as they have a tendency to alienate people close to them.
I agree with
@Ninja_Stoker that how people react to the extraordinary sh1t to which some have been exposed reflects all sorts of things - background, life experience,and very much initial training and the elusive 'ethos' of the Corps or unit involved.
Booties have a particularly dark sense of humour, which is a great coping mechanism.
