Im a bit worried. I have just been sent a message from the Med Centre. I have never had one of those man medical things where they shove their finger up your arse! Im happy with that but it appears they are not and I now have an appointment. I have read about this finger up the arse prostrate massage and the possible arousing effect. Now I am happy if this is a fit young(ish) female (with slim fingers) but, what if it is a bloke? Do I claim to be a Para?