Probs with pms

Sorry to be a total IT biff, but there seems to be a random selection by the system of which pms go to my outbox and which go to my sentbox - I think people think I'm being rude, its just I can't get a message to them.

Yours in desperation,

When you say pms - I was expecting pms, not PM's :lol:

Try typing your reply and previewing it - then submit. I had the same problem last week and that's how I got round it.
When you send a message it goes into your Outbox. When they read it, it gets transferred into your sent box. If they don't read it then it'll stay in your outbox for ages.