Ok, I know I am the wife of, but I just want to clarify something. My dad wants me to go back with the kids to UK for mothers 60th. As I am an only child I would feel guilty if I don't make the effort. I have a 10 year old and a 1 year old (glutten for punishment). I know that we can go without the husband thing tagging along because he is on trb. However what I want to know is: 1. Can I claim for the flight and the coach trip to home up to the spend limit? 2. Can my Dad pay and we still claim it back (Only card airline will take is UK debit or Credit Card and all our money is here) 3. Can I assume that I cannot claim for my youngest because she sits on my lap - not that it is a big deal. I would ask the company clerk, but he is away on ex at the moment and RAO is closed at the moment. Cheers.