Hi, could i please have evryones opinion... PLEASE the more the merrier, so i know it is either me, or not me thats going crazy. I have recently split up with my wife.. a long story... I've not even been married a year, and i ruined it by gambling... and i admit that... gambling a lot. I walked out on her eventually, because she was smoking, and i cant abide smoking, and she knew the one thing that i would not tolerate was smoking, so i walked. The next day i came back, to find her still smoking, after the night befores big ding dong. Anyway.. i've been living in a small flat for the last 2 1/2 months, and we have been on and off, trying to make it work.. wow this is long..LOL Anyway, i've been gamble free for 3 months, so am making a big effort, although i know the damage was done before this. She is still smoking, and has said she does'nt love me, then says she does, etc... and most recently has said the only reason she has tried making a go of it is because she feels sorry for me. So oin my opinion, not a good reason. So i suggested we may consider calling it a day, and we sort of agreed... ish. We then met up the other day, it was lovely, she said she loves me, and suggested in 3 months, once her new tenancy (she rented somewhere else as soon as we split... hmm) has run out. And then said, can i use ur internet.. i need to sort out a log in... so i said yes no prob.. it was for a forces penpal site... And if anyone knows anything about a forces penpal site.. i dont think its the thing my potential getting back together wife should be on???? PLEASE am i missing the point... should i be ok that she wants to chat to loads of squaddies, or should i be concerned... PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE all answers welcome.