I am convinced that someone in my unit is either deliberately or by way of conversation giving my ex info on my career/whereabouts. Bit of back ground, we split early 2010 ans she disappeared of to Scotland with our 4 week old son, and basically refused to allow me any contact. I've had abuse via email every couple of months but towards the middle of last year she started to mention very specific things that had happened related to work. Things came to a head in October last year with the latest round of abuse and her mentioning my promotion and me being in the USA at that time. I spoke to the COC and this info was passed back to the unit, at the same time my wife had started to receive messages. She didn't **** about and called the police who warned my ex off, seemed to do the trick. Until now, I'm currently in Afghan and received mail from her referring to where I am and how she'll get extra money (CSA). The money isn't the issue, I'd already warned the CSA off! However what is worrying me is some ****** who knew my ex and I is spilling details to her. It may not be a bona fide PERSEC issue, but the COC did **** all last time, and I plain don't like the fact that a civilian is aware of my career and professional movements. the civpol seem unsure/reluctant to get involved. Suggestions?