Partner Chlymidia testing ?

#1
I was lucky enough to have a late start today and watched a bit of the Wright Stuff - apparently Chlymidia and other STD's are rampant and getting worse all the time.

I also remember a Regtl Doc's STD brief in Osnabruick where amongst all of the gory dripping disease shots the doc slipped in a picture of a womens bits that any Playboy model would have been proud of - you know the type clean, shaved and inviting!! However he then pointed out that this women looked like any other female Chlymidia sufferer in that there was no external evidence.(shit!!!) Also as I understand it theres no obvious symptems in either sex(double Shit!!!)

This made me think :

How exactly do you ask a new partner to get tested without ruining the moment? I mean your basically saying to her that she might be a dirty bitch!! - I suppose you could ask then duck quickly!

This is a genuine thirst for knowledge.

PS before a feminist has a go this subject is exactly the same for both sexes.
 
#2
depends on the age I reckon. If you ask a 20 year old you'll probably get a reasonable response. Us sprogs are fine asking, no point risking getting the penis lurgy.
 
#3
headgear said:
I was lucky enough to have a late start today and watched a bit of the Wright Stuff - apparently Chlymidia and other STD's are rampant and getting worse all the time.

I also remember a Regtl Doc's STD brief in Osnabruick where amongst all of the gory dripping disease shots the doc slipped in a picture of a womens bits that any Playboy model would have been proud of - you know the type clean, shaved and inviting!! However he then pointed out that this women looked like any other female Chlymidia sufferer in that there was no external evidence.(s***!!!) Also as I understand it theres no obvious symptems in either sex(double s***!!!)

This made me think :

How exactly do you ask a new partner to get tested without ruining the moment? I mean your basically saying to her that she might be a dirty bitch!! - I suppose you could ask then duck quickly!

This is a genuine thirst for knowledge.

PS before a feminist has a go this subject is exactly the same for both sexes.
Over the phone?
 
#5
So you are talking about a problem that has no symptoms, causes no long term damage and can be cleared up with a short course or even a single one off dose of antibiotics if you do happen to catch it?

Why would you bother asking a new partner to go and get tested?

You would be better off asking your new partner to go and get tested for HIV and other more fatal nasties.
 
#6
Yep, bag up. Then when you want rid of the bag, suggest you both go and get tested. Who's to say you haven't got something nasty already?

TB
 
#7
I would suggest that you use a condom (on every conceivable occasion to quote Spike Milligan) to avoid the possibility of infection. If you are moving further on in your relationship, then I would recommend that you suggest to your partner that you are both tested prior to engaging in unprotected sex. In that way, you are demonstrating that you are being responsible in ensuring that you take the sexual health of you and your partner seriously.
 
#9
I was talking to my Staff Sargent about this last night -

try asking questions about past relationships, I did with said Staffy. from talking to each other we both knew each other was clean.

It's a big trust issue on both sides so just ask.

Girlie
 
#10
Steven said:
So you are talking about a problem that has no symptoms, causes no long term damage and can be cleared up with a short course or even a single one off dose of antibiotics if you do happen to catch it?

Why would you bother asking a new partner to go and get tested?

You would be better off asking your new partner to go and get tested for HIV and other more fatal nasties.
My bold.....

Depending on the person you can get symptoms...in men it can be the need to urinate often, itching in the urethra and a white discharge (no not the fun gunk)

Chlymidia can cause permenant infertility in both sexes.

S_R
 
#11
headgear said:
I'm no expert but I believe theres no effects on blokes other than they can spread it but women can become sterile.
The worlds population is 6,637,213,025 and rising by 75 million people per year.

Sterility might not be all bad?
 
#12
why not suggest you get tested together? As you say, it has no symptoms so YOU could be carrying it and infecting her!!
 
#13
I think Steven needs some educating on STDs again! No long term damage? Fruitloop! :D

I went down the route of having a full sexual health test (so HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis etc.) and telling my partner about it. Then asked if she wouldn't mind doing the same. If you've shown willing and have got yourself tested, there's no reason for her to say no (unless she IS a dirty bitch!)
 
#14
Steven said:
headgear said:
I'm no expert but I believe theres no effects on blokes other than they can spread it but women can become sterile.
The worlds population is 6,637,213,025 and rising by 75 million people per year.

Sterility might not be all bad?
Try saying that when you're sterile and want a kid.
 
#15
#16
John_Jorrocks said:
rjv1 said:
Steven said:
headgear said:
I'm no expert but I believe theres no effects on blokes other than they can spread it but women can become sterile.
The worlds population is 6,637,213,025 and rising by 75 million people per year.

Sterility might not be all bad?
Try saying that when you're sterile and want a kid.
http://www.thomson.co.uk/destinations/europe/portugal/holidays-portugal.html
:D

Of your own...
 
#17
John_Jorrocks said:
rjv1 said:
Steven said:
headgear said:
I'm no expert but I believe theres no effects on blokes other than they can spread it but women can become sterile.
The worlds population is 6,637,213,025 and rising by 75 million people per year.

Sterility might not be all bad?
Try saying that when you're sterile and want a kid.
http://www.thomson.co.uk/destinations/europe/portugal/holidays-portugal.html
You're off to hell for that one :lol:

Still in answer to the I want a kid but am sterile problem.
Ever thought of adoption?
 
#18
I was talking to my Staff Sargent about this last night -

try asking questions about past relationships, I did with said Staffy. from talking to each other we both knew each other was clean.

It's a big trust issue on both sides so just ask.

Girlie


I hear what you say Girlie and wish you luck however thats the bit that worries me - as all women know MEN LIE!!! but as all men know WOMEN ALSO LIE!!!! so I think the Goons solution is probably the best way ahead e.g

I went down the route of having a full sexual health test (so HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis etc.) and telling my partner about it. Then asked if she wouldn't mind doing the same. If you've shown willing and have got yourself tested, there's no reason for her to say no (unless she IS a dirty bitch!)

As an aside though if the situation is as bad as the Wright Show was saying then I think it should be better advertised - the show quoted that 9 boys in 10 think that Chlymidia is a flower!!
 
#20
Like I said it's a trust issue.

Girls who don't ask you to use a condom to begin with probably haven't asked any other guy to either.

Most girls won't mind being asked, it shows that you are taking the relationship and both of your healths seriously........ just don't use the words "dirty bitch" or "cheating" in any way or shape!!

I made Staffy wear one even though the trust on STD's was there. there's that other little thing... pregnancy!
 

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