I need some guys advice on my dilemma, I apologise to those of you who feel this site is only for military or ex military. I might qualify if I said my family is army, my boyfriend is army and even I went to OTC at uni? I hope so. My fella is away, we met when he was back on R&R. Here in lies the dilemma, we've been emailing for a while and over the last few months I've only actually seen him 7 days. Internet dating is still sneered at I know, but believe me I'm no monster and definitely NOT high maintenance. The few men that are good are hard to find, so much crap to filter out!! Anyway, my problem.... I have a feeling he's not telling me something. And (as you probably already suspect) I don't think I'm the only girl he's chatting up. Should I ignore my 'feeling'?