I remember a long time ago in the Regt, The RSM gave a certain Sgt extras most weeks as the RSM was shagging the Sgts wife, they went to a local car park near the camp , the guard on stag, saw them through the wire fence, said Sgt was a decent, well liked man, a number of the Guard went to Sgts Mess and painted the RSMs new Volvo pink all over tires, windows everything....pink must have cost a fortune to get off.....
Then the RSMs misses was rang and told where she could find her shagging husband
That would be the famous "rank fcuk", where at least half the pleasure is derived from the knowledge that you are either slumming or highly aspirational whilst two-back beasting it.
However that can be indulged in independently of "pad shagging" or to give it its full name criminal conversation:-
a) Criminal Conversation
A man has a right of action for damages against a person who has had sexual relations with his wife. The action is an action for âcriminal conversationâ. The consent of the wife to the relations does not affect the entitlement to sue; and it is not necessary that the adulterous conduct should have resulted in the separation of the spouses.
Up until 1857 criminal adultery was an offence and was punishable by severe penalties under law. Now the point is, a jump is a jump but when you start pisssing about with other people's lives like this, it is no longer just something to be done for shits and giggles and to keep the lads on the block in good humour.
It has gone on for years and two of the worst beatings I ever came across were those administered to a cheeky Jack the Lad "Pad-shagger", one in Plymouth and the other in Oz. (natraz, not -tralia BTW).