The other day the guy who is now my ex turns around and says he wants us to go on a break. Admittedly I had noticed a change in him. Basically to cut a very long story short he says he has to much pressure in his life and he needs to sort himself out. I could have coped with that as I know that you army men have a lot of stress in your lives. However he at first neglected to tell me that this little event would be occuring without me. Then I happen to see him this weekend and he tells me he still loves and wants to be with me. And when he sorts his life out we can 'live the dream' together. The question im puttin to you Arrse readers, especially knowing how truthful you all are is, is this just male code for the fact he wants to shag around with the little slappers from Tidworth and play the field for a while, then when he is finished and had his come back to me and settle down?