I wonder if anyone has had a similar experience and if so who did you report it to. I found out this weekend that my fiancÃ©s friend who I do not know and never had any interest in knowing, has been abusing the army system to find out info about me so that he and his wife can find something to break us up, as he thinks that I am not good enough for her as I am a Corporal, I know its very weird and to be honest I have never been so insulted or so annoyed by anyone since I have been in (12 years). We are not even in the same corp, I am from a combat arm and most of my career has been spent in the field, avoiding camp as much as possible. However he has said that I am a loser as I have not reached a rank that he deems acceptable in his head!. He is a ranker and for some reason he and his wife are intent on wrecking my relationship. So what he has been doing is getting info about me and sharing it when he gets home with his wife who is a civilian and my partner also a civilian I have nothing to hide but I do not like the fact that my information is being accessed and shared willy nilly by some bloke I have never met!. I have told my partner to tell them that whatever he has been collecting about me is destroyed and to cease doing this delving mission he seems to think he needs to do, or else I will have to take action. They have told her that if she continues to stay with me then they will not be able to socialise with her as much as they would like and that it will put a strain on their friendship. As you can guess I am pretty livid about the whole affair and I cant get my head around it as I have never come across anything as strange as this nor have I heard of anyone ever being so bloody rude, it is not like I am a crap soldier I have loads of quals through the army I work hard have a few tech trades and have my share of medals and I have been an instructor in an ATR, In my private life Liam a normal bloke who loves his kids and spends as much time with my missus and mine and her kids as I possible can, I donât even go out drinking. So what would you do as this is getting on my tits?