My oppo is as blind as a bat and loved up to the eye balls. He's too stoopid to see that his mrs is 'aving it away with some zob. She's a looker, on her 3rd marriage with 2 sprogs from previous partners. He's a great bloke, a bit fugly but a diamond geezer. He's wracked up a lot of debt keeping her head above water, which is where their relationship started to fall apart. No drama's, these things happen. He's in the block, she's still in quarters, and Officer quentin fookin farqwar is sleeping at said OR's house, servicing his ex while OR pays the monthly's! I know we're in the human rights era, but surely she deserves a slap, and he deserves a broken hooter BEFORE being posted! Granted he's not in OR's CoC, but there must be a reg still in force about these things, even if it's 'actions un-becoming', or mis-use of service property!?? Barring shooting said tosser, or servicing said Doris (and she is worth it) any ideas?