i hope to be at Sandhurst in January all going well, i've been seeing a soldier fairly casually for a few months now and it's becomming serious. i'm wondering if this is going to be a problem if/when i get commissioned? a friend has told me that if/when i pass mainboard i should just get rid of the guy and have fond memories before it gets too serious. so what is the deal with officers and soldiers? is it a problem? should i start preparing myself for a possible breakup?