Visiting a relative for a few weeks and I'm a bit concerned about her. She's in her mid sixties retired ex academic. usually fun and friendly, we have been very close since I was young. Conversations have become a bit strained, where she would be free and easy now she will argue black is white before admitting she is mistaken. Also you will get an answer not related to the question you have put, when pointing this out I get a tenuous link to the subject. (she is very clever). The other day she swore blind that she had not visited my wife and I last summer even when we got the pictures out. Doing things seems to take her ages and she will concentrate on one part of the task rather than ensuring the thing gets done. Decisions don't come easy either. Anyone with similar experiences? I don't want to make an appointment with her GP with out her knowledge. She says she is fine But? Posting on Arrse because of the breadth of experience out there.