Need some info from people who have been through the same situation I'm going through. I'm about to start the ball rolling with regards to divorce proceedings. She wants to go through a solicitor in order to get her share of my pension for fear that I might double cross her (which I wouldn't, because of my 3 young children). She's certain she will get her share when I leave the Army, but, I think she will get it when she's 60/65 unless we come to some sort of agreement where I give her an agreed sum of money (what she would be entitled to) so the divorce can go through quicker, as well as cost less for me to get it finalised. She's not bothered, she'll get help for free. We seperated in 2009 and I've now got 6 years left to serve. I've been told I have to fill out an application form with a payment of £180 to Glasgow, for them to do the calculation and put aside her share. Anyone got any good information/pointers for me on what I should do? Much appreciated.