My mate Steve has asked my advice on particular problem involving a lady. The problem: Steve works in an open planned office and see's her walk by quite often. Now he admits this might be to go to the bog or make a brew, or both, however he is certain she has checked him out. He has her at least 100 times. Now I not to clear how I may advise my mate Steve. As we both work in the same office and the equal opportunities issues are huge here. If he just goes and asks her, he may well be in the Shite. So your pearls of wisdom please, does he just risk it and ask her out or does cut to it and ask for a shag?