Our friend MotorMan wrote http://www.arrse.co.uk/cpgn2/Forums/viewtopic/t=106335/postdays=0/postorder=asc/start=20.html I fear it is above my abilities mate. I adore the GREAT ARRSE namely because I write here exactly what I think. I'm afraid mrs.KGB_resident has another opinion. Such a pity that she doesn't speak English. It is just a hobby. So you see it this way. Well, other option is not to be sincere, write one thing and mean anoter. It is not fair I believe. Well, propose a theme for the engagement (verbal engagment of course) and your obedient servant would try to engage.