After keeping a tight lid on my problem for a few months, I can go on no longer. Leaving my job Jan time for better prospects, I entered the world of construction, under my 'mates' wing, I cracked on. Until a jealous type of my mates, who is also male, informed my new boss of certain porky pies. Long story short...said boss informed me sunday night, he no longer need me in. Confirmed by my mate, this cnut had a hand in it. Since then i thought, whoa all this free time, just right to exercise daily, ready for a decent career in the military, something i have wanted to do. That was a couple of months ago, I have hit rock bottom. Motavation has vanished, i know i'm gaining more weight with less activity. I did go up to the careers with all paper work, was weighed and told i needed to shed 1 stone. To be fair the staff tried to slip me under the net, but were bound by restrictions. So i turn for advice, on the world of ARRSE?