MEN - Are they worth it?

#1
Now I have never been a lezzer in my sheltered little life and had no intentions of being one either....BUT...

MEN, I just don't get you lot! I'm honestly baffled by your forever changing minds!! The Soon to be ex hubby has now decided that he misses me. After telling me only just over a month ago he didn't love me anymore, he's now decided that he made a mistake. Of course that mistake happened to be another woman :? so I'm puting the question to you lot because I can't be bothered sussing out wtf he's up to anymore. Couldn't go back (only needs to make that kinda mistake once with me) but would like to know just what he's playing at... go on then give me some insight please!
 
#6
Auntie Yank says:

He's not playing at anything. The other woman dumped him, and now he thinks he's got a consolation prize. Sh!tcan him and go treat yourself to a dayspa visit...that he can pay for.

Or become a lesbian. Let us know how it works out. :D
 
#7
I figured this out funnily enough, even got on with me life too, no probs don't need a guy to make me happy blah blah blah... just can't understand why now? Why do guys think they can just expect to walk back into your life as if nothing has happened? Do you really think it works?
 
#8
Given all the replies above - which I subscribe to totally!! - there are similar experiences on the other side of the fence. A m8 of mine's wife had dallied before their marriage, and much against his better judgement and the advice of his friends (me included) he went ahead and married her anyway....yep you guessed it, she went off and did the same again a few months later. :(
So:
1. What makes you think we're all that different (guys & gals)?
2. As I said to him before the wedding: 'If she's done it before, she'll do it again'.

....same advice goes to you..... :?
 
#9
Sounds like the other woman has given him the flick and he is getting cold at night!

Devorce is an expensive thing, just ask my Dad :lol:

You could Fcuk with his mind, say you will take him back if........

1.He signs the house over to you.
2.Employs a male maid.
3.Removes a testical and gives it to you in a jam jar as a present.
4.He gets a tattoo denoting he has cheated.

This also can be used for cheating wives :twisted:
 
#10
LordVonHarley said:
Sounds like the other woman has given him the flick and he is getting cold at night!

Devorce is an expensive thing, just ask my Dad :lol:

You could Fcuk with his mind, say you will take him back if........

1.He signs the house over to you.
2.Employs a male maid.
3.Removes a testical and gives it to you in a jam jar as a present.
4.He gets a tattoo denoting he has cheated.

This also can be used for cheating wives :twisted:
Except for the testicle bit I presume! 8O
 
#11
1. Am already getting him to do that
2. :lol: you offering?
3. It's the thing inbetween the testicles that's the problem
4. The bugger never bothered to keep it from public knowledge, pretty sure the entire town knows, tattoo not required
 
#13
Women are statistically more likely to be unfaithful than men (or at least get caught!) This guy obviously sees you as second best. You have rightly seen that and refused to take him back. If you did, there would be suspicion, which would cause resentment etc. The fella has found out that the grass isn't greener on the other side. Once the thrill of the deception was removed and seeing her became the norm, the thrill went. Don't take him back, even if you have kids, you would lose your own self respect. P.S. I'm a singly now and if you're a looker and ever down Aldershot way......
 
#14
Sangreal said:
LordVonHarley said:
Sounds like the other woman has given him the flick and he is getting cold at night!

Devorce is an expensive thing, just ask my Dad :lol:

You could Fcuk with his mind, say you will take him back if........

1.He signs the house over to you.
2.Employs a male maid.
3.Removes a testical and gives it to you in a jam jar as a present.
4.He gets a tattoo denoting he has cheated.

This also can be used for cheating wives :twisted:
Except for the testicle bit I presume! 8O
Doh!
 
#15
tigerbaby said:
1. Am already getting him to do that - Also get financial maintanance off the looser
2. :lol: you offering? £15 p/h but I can't clean and I look like a mix of Elvis and John Belushi :cry:
3. It's the thing inbetween the testicles that's the problem - Contents of jamjar is flexible
4. The bugger never bothered to keep it from public knowledge, pretty sure the entire town knows, tattoo not required
DozyBint said:
LordVonHarley said:
3.Removes a testical and gives it to you in a jam jar as a present.

This also can be used for cheating wives :twisted:
Cheating wives being required to remove a testicle from any man in particular? :?
Yes, the man they slept with :lol:
 
#16
tigerbaby, he sees you as being the easy option. His fling has flung, you (I presume) are not divorced yet, so he thinks he can just trot back in.

and

Women are statistically more likely to be unfaithful than men
Odd that. Who are women usually with when they are being unfaithful then?
 
#17
the_guru said:
Women are statistically more likely to be unfaithful than men (or at least get caught!) This guy obviously sees you as second best. You have rightly seen that and refused to take him back. If you did, there would be suspicion, which would cause resentment etc. The fella has found out that the grass isn't greener on the other side. Once the thrill of the deception was removed and seeing her became the norm, the thrill went. Don't take him back, even if you have kids, you would lose your own self respect. P.S. I'm a singly now and if you're a looker and ever down Aldershot way......
Picking up vulnerable, susceptible women?... when did you wanna meet? :lol:
 
#18
RCSignals said:
tigerbaby, he sees you as being the easy option. His fling has flung, you (I presume) are not divorced yet, so he thinks he can just trot back in.
Not divorced yet no, in the process. Oh lucky me!!!!! ;)
 
#19
tigerbaby said:
........

Not divorced yet no, in the process. Oh lucky me!!!!! ;)
Lucky all those single eligible men out there!!!!! 8)
 
#20
Men are contrary beings at the best of times.

This has happened to me before. hmmmmmmmmmmm. Don't take him back. You will NEVER forgive him, as much as you want to, you just can't. Nor will you be able to trust him. Sometimes when a relationship breaks down the two people involved don't behave very well to each other and you constantly see the worst. Women usually get whiney, clingy and naggy, Men become cold, distance and snappy. Because we're not enjoying each other anymore we're constantly miserable. When the relationship is over, we can go back to being the type of person that our partners first fancied in the first place as we don't have the misery of being in a failing relationship.

Perhaps his new missus dumped him, or perhaps he's seen you, free and independent and thought 'hey - I fancy her again', either/or - don't take him back.

... and fcuk all his mates, tell them he has a small d*ck and that he never made you come because he didn't know what he was doing. Make up rumours about his 'perversions'.
 

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