The benefits of a good massage are well documented. There is however the question of extras i.e. attention to the love muscle! Whilst I am sure most massueses are accustomed to making a little extra on the side when is it considered appropriate to broach the subject for that little additional attention and what is the going rate? In my experience most massages start with the recipient face down. After 30 mins or so you are requested to turn over onto your back whereupon (unless you have great willpower) your eagerness is on plain view. Is this the time?