Busy day at the office dear!
1. Gay men probably are more sensitive than us other blokes......but I think something about desiring the unobtainable or the thrill of the chase (as in the girl that converted a gay). Devils advocate and all that....but I do agree, they do listen lots.
2. I think you lot protesth too much about being single....was it Shakespeare or Marlow that said, "it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all". That's the way I used to look at it when being flanned by a girlie.
3. Are you all that selfish that you don't want to share experiences in life....okay maybe not the deep end stuff of kids, but you know, the sunsets, mountain tops, silly times in bed, christmas mornings, etc etc? I like going 'wow' with someone and then having a good natter about it?
4. Yep, it is the same for blokes.....sorry girls there are enough weirdy ones out there. From going off the pill on the 3 rd date to fall pregnant to being unnecessarily jealous (bit of an understatement! :'() I have seen a fair few. Also, girls, you are setting the standard.....FHM, COSMO etc etc portrays the go get them 'it' girls......laddettes......single dominant female culture.....blokes just try and fit into that image that a fair few create when on the town....and then wonder why the bloke is a twat....because he is acting a twat trying to fit in with this girl power thing. A bit over the top maybe, but I know girlfriends who have no interest in a relationship....sort their hormones out, wake up with a hangover and crack with a high power job on Monday morning. Just like a bloke.
Prod, how old are you......the other thing to remember is that girls are usually a bit more mature than blokes and therefore want different things from life at different times. Mother natures body clock has a great way of settling a bloke down when he has had enough of shagging his way around the world and drinking himself to oblivion.
As to your freedom Prod.....find a bloke that has been there, done that....content with life and nothing to prove. And if you are the same then you will both have your different lives but will always be there for each other when you turn out the light......if not physically, certainly in the heart.............
....Arrghh....... :-[