Having been engaged four times and married once, I cannot help but wonder what is the fucking point in this ceremony of pretence anyway. Modern times and the feminist movement are all proving that this act of obtaining a piece of paper is now becoming 'a thing of the past'. 'Why bother' because in my experience the woman gets the kids after any split and you get fuck all. The judge thinks you are a cunt and the bitch who once professed her undying love for you would now like to boil your bollocks and use your dick as a speed ramp. You divorce her and then you become the scum of the earth. Don't get me wrong divorcing my ex-wife was better than any orgasm I ever had with her. Yet what is the point in this ritual investment into a future filled with deep emotional pain and suffering. Does anyone over thirty and who has 'been there' and 'done that' still believe that Marriage is a very good idea and brings stability and harmony. Or is Marriage now just a piece of paper that must not be signed until you have had all the emotional small print and expectant future anguish explained in the greatest of detail.