Dear arrsers, I would like, if I may, to take you on a strange journey... Imagine, if you will, that you are a young man who has arrived at a party which is in full swing. You have been greeted by men, women and dogs all in varying stages of inebriation. One of the men kisses you. (now to my mind this should have set alarm bells ringing. very large, very loud alarm bells) As the evening progresses and more alcohol is consumed you are given several choices of sleeping arrangement. Option 1. sleep in the hostesses bed (older of the two ladies present) Option 2 sleep in a bed with the younger woman (who has a small waxed moustache) Option 3. Sleep on the floor Option 4. Sleep in the bed containing a gay man of the homosexual persuasion. No names, no pack drill. Now our 'theoretical hero' went for option 4. what does that make him?